Love

What is love really? Well let me just take this moment to say yes, I am a guy and I am about to Blog about love. Creepy maybe, but I am in love so it’s relevant and I have an excuse. Love is something that makes people do irrational and rational things. It drives people crazy and places them in that new “sensation” or thrill or exhilaration. Love really is whatever you want to make of it. People show love through many different ways such as: spending time with someone, talking, gifts, good deeds etc. I love my girlfriend, she and I have been together for (this may sound creepy but I’m taking the time to do this anyway. lol) 1 year, 8 days, 20 hours, and 52 minutes, and I strongly believe that God has shown me what it is like to love through her. Taylor has been such a blessing, and I wouldn’t trade anything for any of the days I have spent with her. The funny this is Taylor and I are different personalities. I don’t talk much and she does. (That’s the big one.) But I love her so much! I really do. Anyway what I’m trying to say is love is a very powerful emotion, Webster defines love as a strong feeling of attraction resulting from sexual desire; enthusiasm or fondness. But to me love is not just a feeling, but it is the way that you treat that special someone that you care for. Treating them so kindly so they'll know you care and love them. Love is how you make another person feel when you are in their presence. Love is the laughter that you share, the time you spend, and the relationship that you build with that special someone; it’s that silly bubbly feeling you get inside the pit of your stomach when you see that special someone. It’s putting aside your pride, your own desires, your own agenda, and caring for that person more than yourself. It’s (this may sound morbid) when you would take a bullet, or do anything for that person so that if their life was in danger, you would lay down yours for theirs. (this sounds like a guy’s opinion of love). I am in love. I’m really not nervous to express that. Taylor knows it. My friends know it. My family knows it. Her family knows it. Love is something that you are not to be ashamed of. It is that bond that, if it’s a true bond, can never be broken.

“If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back they’d never ask you to.”